Masturbation passion of woman - female masturbation for women

Certain women like directly touching the clitoris; others prefer an indirect stimulation by caressing the parts of the "mountain of Venus" beside the clitoral shaft. It's often the middle finger which is used. You can caress your clitoris from top to bottom, from side to side, or rub in a circle around it if you're too sensitive.

The best pressure and rhythm vary from one woman to the next. Please begin slowly and gently, then you can get faster and press harder until you find what is easiest for you and what is the most pleasant. Many women keep the same rhythm all the way to the orgasm; others pause periodically, or vary the speed.

Many women insert a finger or an object into the vagina. To insert the middle finger can both feel good and be useful. It can be a support for the other fingers which are stimulating the neighboring erogenous zones. Your finger also allows you to use vaginal secretions to lubricate the clitoris and the small lips. Otherwise, please moisten your fingers with some saliva or use a water-based lubricant. Continuous and overly intense stimulation of the clitoris can cause it to slightly ache. If so, shift your caresses to a different area. Stimulating the clitoral hood can work if the clitoris itself becomes irritated by the friction.

The orgasm

When you feel an orgasm approaching, you can press your heels against one another to increase the pressure in the groin. You can also contract then loosen the muscles of the pelvis and the buttocks. Bodily movements and groaning may help some women to more easily reach orgasm, while others

Fantasies play a naturally important role: you can relive a hot scene with your partner, or if that doesn't excite you enough, please imagine what you'd like to do with somebody else! It's only fantasy, remember. You might reach an orgasm in a few minutes but it can sometimes take a quarter of an hour: everything depends on your mood, on your physical state (fatigue, stress), and on your excitement.

When you're at the edge of the orgasm, contract the muscles of the pelvis and buttocks. You can also do "Kegel" exercises by rhythmically contracting the same muscle that can start and stop the flow while urinating.

It is good to pursue this stimulation during the orgasm, it will very likely be more intense and may later enable you to have multiple orgasms (my case - Melissa).

Any sorts of objects

You can stretch out on your stomach on top of a pillow and rub yourself against it or rub against a pillow placed between your thighs. Stretched out on your back, you can use a sheet or a blanket pulled in a back and forth movement. Some women sit down on the floor and rub themselves against the foot of a chair. Even there, the most important thing is the regularity of the rhythm.
Dildos, vibrators, or other "Sexy Toys" can be very enjoyable. There's a multitude of fun gadgets invented for the pleasure of the woman (alone or with her partner). Find information about them in the Part 6

With some water

During a bath, soaping the body and the genitals is a good start, but please, don't introduce your fingers into your vagina: the soap could modify the PH of your vaginal flora, and you could even catch candidiasis, or cystitis. If you want to directly stimulate the clitoral zone, you may sit down or kneel and use the spray from the showerhead. You may position yourself so that the water from the tub spout drips or splashes against our clitoris. You can move on to manual stimulation if these methods don't bring you to an orgasm. Certain models of bidets send a small fountain upward. Please, also think of Jacuzzi and "whirlpool" bathtubs which can engender very voluptuous sensations.

Vary the Pleasures

Why not try less intimate places? even public places? No, it's not a question of playing exhibitionist, but simply of bringing more excitement to the game. You can very well indulge yourself for a few minutes during work, in the public toilet, at an evening party, or even in the plane (don't forget the blanket in that case!).

By looking at yourself in a mirror you can see what you look like when you're excited, and when you reach orgasm!

Please, also think of stimulating the other parts of your body. Massage your breasts, arms, and even your whole body with an oil or a moisturizing cream; this can constitute a good beginning. And what is more, caressing your breasts, nipples, and stomach when you're at the edge of an orgasm can intensify the pleasure.

Please try various positions: while lying on the bed with a pillow under your stomach, reach your hand over your buttocks to touch your genitals; try it standing, or leaning against the wall. Let your imagination express itself.