At one time or another, one of our fingers found its way to this zone accidentally and maybe we were somewhat surprised. My suggestion is to table the idea, if it’s kind of different, but don’t forget it… because…. one day soon, you will be in an erotic frame of mind all day. You know the kind of day, we all do – when sex is on your mind constantly, you think about it, you fantasize, you imagine quite clearly the sweet feeling of your first touch that shoots through you like electricity, you become wet, very aroused, you can’t wait to get home, it seems like the moment will never arrive … and when it does, you begin a wild, erotic evening of fiery passionate masturbation with overwhelming orgasms, the kind that seize you from inside, stunning you with their intensity like the surreal orgasms you have in a hot, wet dream. Why not take it up a notch.
Let go of old inhibitions. When you get home, play with the environment a little, maybe candles, maybe incense, mirrors, music, go a little further with your surroundings, make them ooze sex. Take your time. Soak it up. When the evening eventually finds you in bed and you are trembling from the first touch, lubricate a finger with your delicious juices and slowly allow a soft and sensual exploration of your anal intimacy. (Be practical - for reasons of hygiene, once you begin, don’t return this finger or fingers to your clitoral or vaginal zone.) Use water based intimate lubricant from the pharmacy and be discreet about which hand goes where.
Let me tell you what drives me insane -- I love to masturbate with varying rhythms with my clitoris and vagina, sometimes with a toy, I feel verrrrry nice and adventuresome and gratefully accept the invitation of the anal zone and explore it. I start with circular caresses with a finger while I continue to masturbate my clitoris and vagina with the other hand. I feel my sphincter (the muscle of entry) loosen up... which is another invitation, this one to venture a little further... then I penetrate myself gently, then retreat, then penetrate, then explore. After a few moments my opening slackens and accommodates me more and more. By then, I am so aroused by what my other hand is doing to my clit and vagina, I’m beside myself. All three feelings are sooo complimentary. You are filled from every possibility.
Try it! Discover this sensation at your own rate/rhythm and according to your desires. If the idea of using your fingers doesn’t work for you, there are hot sex toys just for this. You may have heard of an anal plug and believe me, they are incredible (to me anyway) They come in various sizes and diameters and you can buy a box of them with all sizes. Take a look in the Sexy Shopping section . When you try it, please let me know! Write me a story telling of your first adventure which I can share with other women!