As always, there is not absolute rules in this technique of female masturbation. Certain women do not like the idea of one so intimate contact, others cannot live without that to have a more vaginal pleasure.
The fact is that, a good number of women caress herself introducing a finger or an object into the vagina. Introduce its middle finger can be pleasant and useful. That can be a point of support for the other fingers which stimulate the neighbouring erotogenic zones.
Oftenly, we will not directly start to introduce herself a finger : a digital penetration too abrupt would cause, undoubtedly, more gene or small sorenesses that another thing. A progressive excitation of your erotogenic zones (breasts, interior of thighs, buttocks, pubic zone, vaginal lips or clitoris) will cause in the majority of the cases an
excitation, then a rise of the pleasure and a natural lubrication of your intimacy. Then come gradually to explore your body : a small furtive finger which introduce in then show up to caress you around the clitoris… Deeper penetration against the soft walls of your vagina… A finger, then a second ? And one third ? There are rules only those of what you like : listen to your body, your desires, your pleasure.
- If you feel that in spite of an external stimulation (direct caresses of the clitoris zones or via soft objects), your intimacy remained relatively dry, don't panic : there are not 2 women similar ! (Tiredness, stress, period of the cycle,…), I recommend you the purchase and the use of intimates lubricant (containing water) that you will be able to find in malls, pharmacies or more discreetly by correspondence (for example at
Sexy Avenue ). Sometimes, you will find your fingers too short, too fine or too hard… It is the moment to test the natural prolongation of your hand : a dildo or one vibrator…