Emily : She's found her G-Spot !

I am sending this e-mail because I love to read your stories and because I am a very orgasmic, beautiful girl and I would like to share some of my experiences with you all! hope you enjoy!

Hi, I'm Emily, I'm 21 and I love to masturbate like this:
First I get out a lesbian pornography video, and sit on my bed while I intently watch lesbian sex. I can feel my juices flowing, my clit starts to throb. I slowly rub my finger around my clit. With my other hand, I fondle my full and luscious breasts. My nipples are getting erect and my boobs are hard. As I watch, my clitoris comes out of its hood and sticks out of my vagina.
My vagina lips are purple and big and juicy. I am still fondling my clit and breasts. I Insert a finger into my clit and slowly move it in and out, faster and faster. As the video gets more erotic and intense, the faster I go. While I have a finger in there, I feverishly squeeze and rub my very erect clitoris. The pleasure is very intense. I can feel myself starting to orgasm. I squeal and groan in my intensely pleasurable state. I orgasm for about 30 seconds and then I fall back onto my bed, my body twitching and quivering in aftershocks.
But that's not the best part. I change the video into a more erotic and orgasmic lesbian video and get a long vibrating dildo, designed to stimulate the clitoris and G-Spot at once. It is my favorite toy. I sit back on the bed, hornier than ever. I want this vibrator in me so bad, I insert it and put it on high speed. While I watch the video, I sit with my vibrator in my vagina, and my vagina in direct contact with the bed, so I can sort of push the vibrator in and out by rocking back and forth. I watch the video intently and the pleasure emanating from my clit and G-Spot is unimaginably intense, I completely erupt in this huge multiple orgasm, both the G-Spot and the Clitoris at the same time, I rock back and forth, screaming and bouncing, my tits bounce everywhere, I have a huge female ejaculation from my G-Spot. It is so great. My clitoris constantly throbs and I have extremely intense, almost unbearably pleasurable multiple orgasms that last for about 5 minutes. As they start to die off, I lie back in a pleasurable trance and think, Im glad to have a vagina!

You would also like to try masturbating like Emily ? I advise you to try the dildo / vibrators you can find by the best and sexyest French "Sexy Store" : Carpediem / Sexy Avenue - Melissa.

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Cass : Practise makes Purrfect !

First I'd like to say THANK YOU! to the people who suggested using a curling iron. I had a broken one lying around and I took it apart and removed the clamp part and the wire. I'd thought about using it before but I'd worried that the metal would be too uncomfortable. Boy was I wrong! It's fabulous. Metal is a great conductor of cold or heat and it heats up really quickly inside of me. It feels great and the handle is an added bonus. I've been using cucumbers for some time now but they have a lot of drawbacks...constant expense, cleaning and warming them up takes time when you need it fast, I always wonder if my straight-laced roommates notice that I buy a lot of them but rarely eat them, then I have to worry about throwing them away where they won't be noticed...
And I'd like to tell all of you girls out there who are just getting started to hang in there! For years I didn't masturbate. I was one of the ones who said, "It's like kissing my brother." What I really should have been saying was, "I have no idea what I'm doing." When I finally decided that I needed to learn what to do and keep practicing until I got it right I got on the internet and looked for some info.
It took me a long time to finally get an orgasm by masturbating. The thing is that something that works for other people might not work for you. I spent a long time trying the showerhead but it never worked for me. This is my advice. First of all do not go at it cold. Do something to get yourself in the mood first, read some erotic stories or watch a movie or something, whatever it takes. Make sure that you are totally comfortable and then just relax and have fun. In the beginning I found that it helped if I played with my breasts for a long time, until I was really wet and needed it bad.

I also suggest using some kind of lubricant at first, I found that after I got good at it I no longer needed any extra lubrication. I started out focusing my attention on my clit and I suggest that you do that too. Get to know your clit and what feels best, for me it is just one finger, pressing down hard and moving back and forth. I get a different sensation depending on if I use my right or my left hand. However, I must say that at first I couldn't get an orgasm playing only with my clit. I had to insert something into my vagina. I went around trying anything that seemed like it would fit but in the end cucumbers worked best (long thin ones, not the regular ones). At first I would just insert the 'dildo', whatever it was, and just having it inside of me was enough. It made my clit extra big and sensitive and I'd just attack my clit. That's when I started orgasming.
After that I started working the 'dildo' in my vagina. Pumping it in and out feels really nice and is most reminiscent of actual sex but I find that wiggling it back and forth or in circles is much more stimulating. I also like to use my fingers and go at my g-spot. After awhile I also tried things in my ass. I don't do it very often and I always worry about doing damage. Basically what I do is insert something very small, like a pen, and then I put something in my vagina and work that. It feels *amazing* so I really suggest that you try it. Normally whatever I put in my ass works its way out pretty quickly but it doesn't matter, my vagina and clit remain extra sensitive.
My last piece of advice is Don't Stop Trying. It may take a long time (I remember reading a magazine a few years ago that said you needed to practice an hour a day for three months - really it shouldn't take that long!) but it is well worth it, and practicing should be a lot of fun! And the benefits are great, it really reduces my stress level, pms and cramps. And I think everyone should know how to operate their own body.
Have fun! --Cass

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Amy : A masturbation biography (part 1)

I am not sure when my first actual masturbation act was or where I was, but I have always liked to touch myself. I grew up in a family where sex wasn't ever discussed nor was there too much affection besides hugging. I am the youngest of four siblings, and there are many years between myself and sibling #3, so basically I was alone with my thoughts and feelings. I was the first in my class to reach puberty at age 11, the first to wear a bra, the first to shave my legs/pits and the first to get pubic hair. That was also my first recollection of masturbating (though I didn't know that, that was what it was called). For my 12th birthday party, I had a slumber party in my basement. I had invited about seven girls over all my age and one girl named Stephanie, was 15.

It was Stephanie's idea for all of us to undress and show each other's bodies off for a contest. All of us were very naive but the thought of undressing in front of the other girls really excited me. I've always been fascinating with people's bodies from early on in my life, both girls and boys. When Stephanie went first, she took off her pajama top first and out popped two very nice and soft looking tits. Her nipples were very pink and to me, they looked soft. I couldn't keep my eyes off of staring at her tits. Then she stood up, right in front of me and she took off her shorts and undies. What I will never forget is seeing her full brown bush just "there" and her long legs. She started to run her hands up and down her body and pranced around the room, as the other girls were giggling and I just was staring at her tits and bush.

From then...my hormones took a life of their own along with my imagination. I grew up in a very small rural town and we had to make our own fun as we did not have a mall or other activities going on than playing outside or swimming. I was 13 when a friend gave me a Judy Bloom book to read called "Forever"....She had highlighted passages throughout the book and told me that I'd really enjoy those parts. But being so naive about sex and everything else, I hadn't a clue what she was talking about. I read the book within one night while in bed. I remember being on my back and I had my head propped up on some pillows, with my legs spread a little bit, I was wearing a nightgown. I remember getting this "feeling" down below, like my private area (that's what I called it) was throbbing. I had never felt this throbbing before, but I knew I liked the feeling. As I read the book and when I got to the passages, my private area really started to clench in and out of the muscles, and my legs spread a bit more.....without thinking, I raised up my nightgown and put my hand just inside my inner thigh. I didn't move my hand, just left it there, rubbing my inner thigh. I remember the feeling that my I was getting below, and it felt like I had peed the bed, but when I looked, there was nothing there but clear liquid. Again because of my naiveté, I didn't know that was my own love juice.

I realized that age 12, if I wanted to continue to find pleasure with my body that I was going to have to be secretive about it as one night my sister, my brother's girlfriend and I were in our living room on the floor. I had been horny all day and had been dry humping the furniture all day alone. They were talking about something and my mind drifted to earlier in the day when I was dry humping the chair and I put my hands in between my crotch and sat down on them. I was bouncing up and down on my hands, feeling the same sensation that I did earlier in the day and my face started to get flushed. I was in heaven till my sister had this look of horror on her face and said "Amy, what are you doing?"....I said "it feels good." And she and the friend busted out laughing and they exchanged looks. My sister said very sarcastically and rude "Amy do you masturbate?" That was the first time I had heard the word masturbate. But I wasn't flooded with guilt or embarrassment or even did I feel like what I was doing was dirty or wrong. I just told her "no." And I told myself that I'd always make sure not to get caught again.

After the book - came more books and more books and more books. I was really enjoying the "feeling" but still didn't know what it was or if I should ask someone like my sister, I just kept it as a secret. My secret feeling. One day I went over to a friend's house, the same one who gave me the Judy Bloom book and she took me into her dad's room and she was very secretive. She pulled out a drawer and took out stacks of magazines: Penthouse, Hustler, Playboy. She took the magazines and grabbed my hand and we sat side by side in her closet looking at all the magazines. This was the first time I had ever seen intercourse and a man's penis and an erection. I didn't tell my friend, but I was very excited looking through these magazines. I couldn't help but stare at the women in Playboy, but the most fascinating pictures were seeing the couples having sex in Hustler. My friend really liked to show me her body. We never did anything, touch or anything like that, but she really liked to show me her boobs, and she'd show me how she liked to touch herself. She also had a nice full brown bush and long legs. She also taught me at age 13 how to kiss. We didn't kiss each other, but she showed me how to "practice" on the skin between my wrist and the back of my hand. She told me someday that I would do what is called French kiss with a guy, and he would stick his tongue in my mouth, and she told me what I was to do back. I never understood how she knew all of this when she was only 13 too. So...from then, I'd practice kissing my skin and one thing lead to another as this practicing really got me aroused down below.

Whenever I was alone in the house (which was a lot, as I was a latch key kid) -- I would dry hump furniture with all my clothes on. I would get my vagina area positioned around part of the wooden arm chair and ride it basically, going up and down the wooden knob. I got a lot of pleasure doing this or I would (on the outside of my clothes) rub my hand back and forth very fast until I could make that clear liquid come out of me.....I moved up to taking off my pants or shorts and leaving on my undies, I'd just take like a large marker or a long candle and run it up and down my crack to my "private area"...I always was on my back on the couch when doing this and thoughts were coming in from the magazines I had seen or from different parts from books I had read. My breathing at this point started to heighten and this excited me more. My rubbing started to get more intense and I would apply more pressure to my vagina and to the area above it (which much later, I found out it was called my "clit"). I moved from markers and candles to screw drivers with the large plastic molded handles (using the handle part) and hair brushes. I learned to tickle my clit and tickle my vagina.

Around age 15, I named my vagina to "my puddy" (pronounced pooh-dee) and I was still using screw driver handles to get myself aroused and wet. I hadn't thought of touching any other part of my body but my puddy. Since early childhood to now adulthood, I have always loved to take baths. My ritual is, I shower in the morning and nightly, no matter where I am, I take a bath before sleep. While taking baths, I'd take the washcloth and lather it up with lots of soap and run it up and down my puddy and spread my legs underneath the lukewarm water running from the faucet. It was during this time when I was 15 when I discovered that my breasts needed stimulation too.

For you information, Amy informed me a couple of days ago, that one can watch her sometimes on a dedicated website for webcam . We will try and and find her, I think we won't regret it ... - Melissa

Amy : A masturbation biography (part 2)

When I was a junior in high school I can vividly remember when I had my first real multiple orgasm. My older sister was home from college with her boyfriend, and the three of us were in the basement watching a romantic/thriller movie. We had all the lights off and I had a blanket on over my jammies. They were on one couch snuggling and kissing periodically and I was on the other couch. I had my legs spread open wide, I had one leg up on the back of the couch and the other one bent on the couch. I could feel a nice draft to my puddy. On the movie there was a lot of lovemaking going on and this just enhanced what I was about to do. I took my hand (fingers) and slowly made their way down to my undies and scooted my butt down further on the couch and drew up the blanket more to make it look like I was just stretching out....with my leg still up on the back of couch, I fingered my way to the waist band of my undies and started to tickle my pubic hairs lightly....this instantly sent waves of excitement all throughout my body. The same aching throb came at once to my puddy and my breathing started to increase a little. Unsure if I should continue on and may get caught or stop and finish later...I went for the adventure and moved forward. I found my clit immediately and rested my middle finger on that and took my other hand and put it below the right hand, so my left hand was resting in the lips of my twat, pinching in and out and playfully in a circular motion touching the insides of my lips, while my middle finger started to pump my clit. My juices started to seep from me and this only made me go faster, as the feeling I was experiencing was like no other. I shifted fingers to my clit to get better speed and rubbed super hard, I could literally feel my heart beating fast and my breathing started to excel higher. I had it so my arms were in so far that they cupped my breasts together and that was a new found feeling too. My tits were touching. I could feel the coldness of my nipples touching side by side, this made me pump harder on my clit. Well one thing led to another and I thought I was going to die from the explosion that was shooting up and down my body....my puddy was quivering and throbbing, I had a pool of clear sticky liquid in my underwear, I mean so much that I knew I would have to change them and my tits were actually aching. And the whole time my sister and her boyfriend had no clue as to what I was doing right next to them.

From this....I begin to be very daring and very adventurous, it was as if I wanted to get caught by someone, but through the years to present day, I have mastered my masturbating to a perfection. Because no matter if I am at a movie theater, a concert, at a friend's house watching a movie or even at work, I can always find not only a reason to masturbate, but also I can do it without having anyone, even the person sitting next to me at a movie know that I am touching myself.

Four years ago, I was given as a gift a hand-held three speed heat massager, it's funny shaped and when I got it I just put it in a drawer untouched. This massager has now become a daily part of my life. By shear accident I was using it one time on my legs to relieve a charley horse and the phone had rang and I placed the massager down between my legs to get the phone....while talking on the phone, I must have moved somehow and activated the massager. It was directly on the puddy and the sensation I got from the small pressure of this on my snatch sent unbelievable shoots of excitement up and down again. I immediately got off the phone to experiment with this...I took off my shorts and underwear and got into the lazy boy recliner, reclined all the way back, spread my legs over the arms and plugged in the massager. I spread my lips and located my swollen clit and put the head of the massager directly onto it. I then took my hands and started to thrust in and out the massager to meet the thrusting of my hips. I was in heaven. This was unreal. So pleasurable. The vibrating head of the massager instantly made me wet and the wetter I got, the harder I pushed the head down on me.

I have found that I can make myself cum instantly whenever I place the head of the massager in my snatch, so to prolong the juices flowing, I have now learned to tease myself first....I rarely use my hand or fingers anymore in my slit, clit and hole....I've found that if I position the vibrator now while sitting and slowly rock on it with my hips in motion, and take one hand and massage my tit and pinch and roll my nipples....I will not only cum later but have multiple orgasms. My favorite thing to do is...lay on the couch, again with one leg up on the back and one down, bent slightly....first I like to play with both tits...squeezing them, kneading them (they are medium sized, nice brown nipples)...and I have mastered a feat that I love to get off on...I can bring my left tit up to my mouth when I lower my head and I like to lick my boob and slightly nibble at it....getting my nipple erect.....then I like to play with my hard erect nipples, pulling on them....this gets my puddy quivering for my touch and I like to clench in my muscles around my cunt to get them stretched and ready for an orgasmic workout. I like to take my hands and run them up and down my body..touching everything, somewhat tickling myself and resting my hands on my inner thighs and squeeze them, this also makes me wet. Next I take my vibrator and place it on my clit and put it on low speed, I run the massager up and down my wet slit and tease my clit some...I move my ass down and raise up my snatch some and rest the vibrator right in the middle of my snatch. With it being on low speed I can bring my legs together and with much skill and practice, my legs now hold the vibrator in place while my hands explore my body and concentrating on my tits and nipples. Also I have brought back from my childhood, kissing and sucking my skin on the back of my wrist.

When I am fantasizing with my eyes closed while masturbating, I tend to suck my skin a lot and this really turns me on while the vibrator is kissing my clit. But when I am masturbating to something on television or to a movie that I am watching, or reading something sexual, I concentrate solely on my cunt and make sure I satisfy my needs down below.

What I like to do for masturbation now? Basically the same as I mentioned. But I've just ordered my first dildo/vibrator, so I am anticipating much excitement and much pleasure from that....
Otherwise my latest masturbation events have been with meeting men on America Online and we go to a private room and have cybersex, while I have my vibrator on my clit on the chair...I can usually cum three times doing that...and then when I get off the computer, I go immediately into an hour long masturbation either on my bed or on the couch till I cum one more time. I also like to read fantasies written by men and we play them out online, which gets both of us off.

Amy has written to me one more time recently to tell me she can seen from time to time beind a webcam on the French web site from Paris : "Paris Voyeur". An English version, where you can chat directly with ladies (even if you don't have a webcam), is now available. - Melissa

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Jammi, 48 : How masturbation helped our marriage

I love your site. What a turn on to be able to share my secret!

I'm in my late forties and have masturbated since age nine. The frequency of my
self-pleasure has varied a lot over the years from at least once a day in my
early teens to a few times a year as a married adult. After nine years of
marriage, my husband and I have sex once or twice a week, which I understand is
about normal. It's good and satisfying, but of course, has become quite routine
over the years. Several months ago I stumbled upon a new technique that has
really rejuvenated our sex life.

One evening I heard our new young neighbors having very enthusiastic sex and I
was extremely turned on, but when my husband got home he felt ill and was in no
shape for making love. That night as I laid in bed listening to him snore and
fantasizing about our young neighbors, my hand slid down into my panties and
began to very slowly and gently caress my clitoris. I was so turned on I
realized I just had to make myself cum right there next to my husband. The very
thought of it turned me on all the more, and by barely moving one finger on my
clit, with tiny quick strokes I quickly brought myself to a crashing orgasm. My
husband woke up as I spasmed and cried out, but I told him I had just had a bad
dream and he was soon back to his rhythmic snoring. It was such a turn on to do
it right there next to him! The danger of being caught in my secret pleasure
made me feel like a teenager again. I did it two more times that night and I've
done it at least once a night ever since, even after my husband and I make love!

The great thing is that our sex life has got a lot better both in quality and
quantity. I think that's because I'm turned on every single night almost like
when we were first married. I've got very good at making myself cum by barely
moving a single finger while listening carefully for any changes in his
breathing. I'm also good at covering up for my orgasms if he wakes up (a
nightmare, a cough, leg cramps, etc.) Usually I can stifle myself enough that
he sleeps right through it. I feel like such a naughty girl! It's wonderful.

Janni.

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